Being in sync sexually with your partner can make living together more blissful than ever, even making decision as to who washes the dishes too.
This happens more times than we think, being in sync with your partner when it comes to sex can be very invigorating, and this can spread to different part of your lives. Choosing a restaurant to eat after church will be easier, having a synced sex life can be meaningful.
Because it can be difficult if your sex life isn’t in sync, Jamie Hergenrader at Women’s Health magazine have asked experts to discuss how it can be difficult to create the sync and how to do that.
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Your lady wants more sex frequently.
It always seem like guys want sex the most, because of that guys typically miscalculate their partner’s sex drive, this was revealed in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. It also explained that if men thought women would reject sex, they wouldn’t bring it up. The truth is women too want sex, almost as much as men
The best way to sync your desires is simply be upfront about it. Tell him in plain language, if you feel it might be awkward, look for a scenario to bring it up, like during a romantic movie. “The language we use to talk about sex can be sexy in itself,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., a psychotherapist and sexuality counselor in New York City.
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So, you can make it in a compliment like “I like when we have sex in the morning before getting out of bed. Let’s do more of that”. If that doesn’t still work, make an emotional case like why it is important to you, that should do the trick.
Your man wants more sex
Isnt this case like all the time, men love sex and what sex all the time, that’s what I have heard mostly from ladies. How men are the sex freaks, the truth is that men have higher libido, they are also social ingrained, they have taught to go after sex, says Fleming.
It is also knows that Men find it easier psychologically to get aroused, they could see a covered boobs and still get turned on.
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To sync up with this matter is to know, she cannot jump on every erection you have. Also, not to ignore the sex request too. Saying things like “You’re always horny” might not be so bad at first, down the line, it will become resentment. . “The higher-desire partner’s sexual frustration can leave them feeling hurt, while the lower-desire partner feels pressured,” says Kerner.
Compromise is the keyword, find time to discuss and plan romps, even put date and time. It sounds funny and not spontaneous but it will work. It will help you put your mind at the day and time, it will prepare you.
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