It’s fairly easy for guys to get pleasure from sex, either from sex itself, oral sex or even a handjob
One of the things you owe your partner is to give her a good time in bed. Not just a good time, a mind blowing and tear jerking time when they she hits the sack with you.
It’s also okay to be bad at something at the beginning, the key is to keep improving on it, to get better at it every time. The common misconception about sex is that it’s a specific activity centered, insert, take out, insert again, then perform in a fast motion or slow motion.
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The truth is men need sexual education. If your car isn’t good, you don’t just open the bonnet and locate the problem without being sufficiently trained in car maintenance.
Guys have been known to wing it, just go with the flow when it comes to sex, ultimately not knowing how to satisfy a woman due to this a lot of men find it difficult giving their woman orgasm.
It’s fairly easy for guys to get pleasure from sex, either from sex itself, oral sex or even a handjob, tugging at the meat pack can be also super effective for guys to achieve orgasm.
It certainly gets more technical when it’s the guy’s turn to give the lady orgasm, its where a lot of guys fail, here are some facts that might shock you.
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70% of women have never achieved orgasm with a man
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60% of married women will cheat on their partners, all in pursuit of orgasm, the grand master of feel good.
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25% of men will get refused sex half the time, it is also important that we understand that he was turned down because she now sees sex as a chore since she cannot climax.
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About 50% of men have partners that don’t ask for sex, perhaps because of the sexual frustration that might ensue at the end.
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About 92% of women fake orgasm, just so the torture can end.
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It’s also quite understandable why women are frustrated with sex, put yourself in their shoes. Would you want to engage in anything that doesn’t hold any benefit for you? No! which is why women have all sorts of excuses for not engaging in the exercise of futility.
Have you experienced any of the above in your lifetime? Have you been turned down by your girlfriend or wife, because you wanted to have sex and she didn’t? Has she ever told you any of the excuses, cheated on you, or even faked an orgasm just to get it over with?
Here is a few tips you can use to your advantage
1. Study the female genitalia
Without familiarizing yourself with any equipment at a job, you can only wing it for so long before everyone finds out you don’t know what you’re doing. Increase your knowledge base about your lady parts.
2. Ask her what she likes
This isn’t against your macho code of honor, ask her what she wants, she can guide you to how you can satisfy her, instead of doing random things and hoping one of them works.
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3. Explore other parts of her body
It doesn’t all end with her pussy alone, try to explore other parts of her body, some ladies like their boobs massaged while you’re eating her out. Others like the neck been kissed during slow romantic sex. Explore and find out what works best for her.
4. Patience
Like an artist, masterpieces take time, don’t rush it, take your time. Learn about her body, ask her what she likes, explore her body, and most importantly give it time. Don’t make out with her for 5 minutes then dive dick first into her pussy.
It’s not always about the destination, some times it’s also about the journey.
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