If you're someone who cannot even send a nude picture then a sextape is a big leap, a leap of faith worth taking.
Thank you for not closing this yet or clicking away, I know this is highly frowned upon except people who supposedly don’t have qualms about it. One reason why people don’t want to think about it is because it can leak and we know how that goes down.
I understand the apprehension. So, come with me on this journey, as we discuss how exactly making a sex tape could be beneficial to your relationship.
In the race to keep things interesting, sex tapes have been found out to able to inject magic in your bedmatics affair. I’m not the only one who recommends this, Medical Daily, a reliable source also opines that making a sex tape can keep the fire burning in your bedroom, reports Harry Fletcher, Loaded.
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One of the biggest revelation that could happen is that, you both get to watch yourself, and see aspects of your game that needs to improve. A cross section of experts on this topic which includes therapist Eboni Harris, relationship author April Masini, and psychoanalyst, Dr Fran Walfish, have revealed that your recorded love making can be of vital importance to a loving and healthy relationship.
Relationship author, April Masini said more about recording yourselves having sex, “Men are visual. All you have to do is take a quick glance at the profits for the porn industry to know I’m right.
“And if they have a partner who’s ready and willing to make a sex tape, which is porn, it doesn’t get much better for them. They get to have sex and watch the sex, while possibly having more sex, creating levels of pleasure.”
If you can get over your phobia of your tape leaking, then you’ll realize that it’s not as bad as you feared it will be, and it holds more advantage to both of you, and there is nothing awful about you and your spouse watching yourself get down.
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Harris also said, it is a great way to up your game, and be comfortable enough that you’re all having a good time.
“If you think about watching the tapes like a game tape, you can use the footage to honestly share the moments that were most enjoyable.
“It is also interesting to note what you were focused on during certain positions or any particular acts that took you out of the moment,” Harris said.
While it has a lot of benefits, we cannot overlook the danger it holds in case of a leak. So, my summation here is that you both record it, watch it together and delete almost immediately. Before anyone is hitting you up for N500,000 ransome money for your sextape. Not like it happen to me, I’m just preaching safety.
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