No one turns down a blowjob unless it's awful or has some sinister agenda behind it.
Earlier, we discussed why there is a dip in orgasm ratio for heterosexual women and a bump in lesbian/bi-sexual women. The dip in the orgasm ratio is being referred to as “orgasm gap”.
A lot of women receive pleasure from oral sex, not just women alone, men as well. As great as this is, there is a new evidence that suggests women are turning down oral sex. Oral sex can lead to orgasm, and it’s one thing that they enjoy a lot, so when would women then choose to turn it down.
The reason for this is quite simple, ladies are turning down oral sex because they don’t want to return the favor by giving the guy a head which we love. All the guys that enjoy oral sex, say yes! Reports Sarah Buchanan, Daily Star.
A recent study that was published in the Journal of Sex Research, discovered that straight women are experiencing a downturn in orgasm.
The author of the study, Karen L. Blair said this, “It seems that women may be reluctant to ask for oral sex from their male partners because they are not overly keen on reciprocating the act.” As she spoke with PsyPost.
In the study, they also found out that men do like to give oral sex to their partners more, but they do this with an hidden agenda in mind.
ALSO READ: 10 things about sex in a blissful relationship Karen also said “Men really enjoy providing oral sex to their female partners and would like to do this more, but women are reluctant to let them do this (we do see that women in mixed-sex relationships report engaging in this behaviour less and that they are less likely to say they want the frequency of it to increase).”
“So, men could be reporting that they want to do this more because their partners are reluctant and they really would like to do it more.”
The hidden agenda here is that they can if they want the ladies to do the same to them in return.
Karen also revealed “It could be that men would like to receive more oral sex and they believe that in order to do that, they need to first provide more oral sex, so they may be reporting a desire for increased frequency as a means of increasing the likelihood of later receiving more oral sex from their female partners.”
“More research would be needed to really disentangle these potential motives.
“I lean towards the first one though, as they also rate giving oral sex as being very satisfying.
“Women, on the other hand, do not rate giving oral sex to male partners as being highly satisfying.”
During penetrative sex, men receive the most satisfaction during the act, another revelation from the study. Also over half of women have said that their partner can help them climax by using sex toys, porn or lube.
ALSO READ: Here is how to have more sex with your partner than before
A Durex sex expert, Alix Fox also spoke about orgasm with couples, how the mouth can be used but not in the way you’re thinking of it “The stats show that for many couples, the key to hitting the big-O is performing a very special trick with their mouths… talking.”
The best way to achieving the best oral sex experience is to be open about it, speak about it,
“If you’d like your lover to become more skilled at bringing you sexual pleasure, the best thing you can do is to have an open, honest conversation with them about what types of touches, tools and techniques really work for you (and which ones don’t).”
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