It's not necessarily a new thing but it's good that we are speaking about it now, it should also be considered sexual assault.
There are things about sex that we always don’t like sex and since the culture in this part of the world has always tried to repress women from speaking out against sex assault because of shame and the stigmatism that comes along with it.
What is happening isn’t exactly a new thing, it happens a lot of times, and also in some circumstances, the lady ask for it. When she asks for it, its fine, if the man does it on his own without the approval, then it becomes a form of sexual assault. I’m sure you’re wondering what the thing is.
Here it is, stealthing is the practice of a man taking off his condom during the intercourse without the knowledge of the partner, reports Nicola Oakley, Mirror UK.
Sounds like something that has happened to you before right? You’re having the same “Me too” moment right now. A woman is in the forefront of throwing more light on this. She is Alexandra Brodsky of Yale Law School, who admits as previously stated that it’s not a new thing, but it’s just rarely spoken about.
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In a paper written By Brodsky published in the Columbia Journal of Gender and Law, she writes about how consensual sex can become non-consensual by the unannounced removal of condom during sex. She also wrote that it should be declared a form of sexual assault, and treated like that, according to the New York Post.
One of the major disadvantage of the secret removal is the it can lead to increased risk of pregnancy and disease, in the interview she took, she made it clear that “experienced by many as a grave violation of dignity and autonomy.”
In the study conducted, she spoke with a woman, Rebecca who has been a victim of the ‘stealth’, she also works at a hotline for victims of sexual violence, the Huffington Post reports. Rebecca said when ladies call the helpline, it usually begins with them not being able to explain what happened.
“Their stories often start the same way: ‘I’m not sure if this is rape, but…'” Rebecca said.
Brodksy told the Huffington Post: “One of my goals with the article, and in proposing a new statute, is to provide a vocabulary and create ways for people to talk about what is a really common experience that just is too often dismissed as just ‘bad sex’ instead of ‘violence’.”
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To reiterate the dangers of doing this are quite severe, it could lead to unwanted pregnancy and diseases. The condom being removed can do well enough to stop these.
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