This is a question no one can definitely answer but we attempt to take a stand on this issue. One thing is certain, no one want a 30 seconds man, we all agree on that.
The timeframe looks kind of huge, and I see that now, but don’t forget it’s just a time-gap. It doesn’t have to be 2 hours, it’s just a joke unless you and your lady/guy have that kind of appetite. Sadly, I cannot give you an ideal time for how long sex should take. Even science cannot give a definite timeframe for how long sex should take, Sophie Saint Thomas, GQ.
However, during a study done in 2005 among 500 heterosexual couples, they found out that the average act of sex between couples last from 33 seconds to 44 minutes, which totally throws my initial 2 hours assertion into the garbage. I’m happy to trash it though, which means the average session shouldn’t last more than 44 minutes which is like an episode of Suits, scandal, walking dead or any other 45minute TV show you’re interested in.
For people who generally don’t tend to last that long, that looks like a miracle and mostly can be boring especially for a lady who is good with 10 to 15 minutes time in the sack. Now for further clearing up of the usage of the time-frame. This 44 minutes is how long penetration should be, so it covers just the time when the penis enters the vagina till the penis ejaculates.
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So, it doesn’t cover the foreplay period or afterplay as well, which then makes it more interesting, will there be how the time is meant to be distributed. 15 minutes in missionary, another 12 minutes with cowgirl, then spend the rest on doggy position, the crowd favorite? Just a wild guess.
Another school of thought is to assume that the 44 minute encapsulates everything been done that has to do with sex or preparing for sex, in this regard, foreplay and erotic tease totally counts as it also leads to penetration sex. These other activities are also thought to be part of the sex session.
Here is how you can make it up to the 44 minutes mark, it might look simple to others and uneasy to others. Here is what you can do, it’s easy. Spend more time on foreplay, but doing this has its advantages and disadvantages. One of the biggest advantages to this is that it helps your lady to get more interested in sex with you, longer foreplay have been found out to make sex more memorable for ladies other than just doing it for a couple of seconds then diving right into the sex.
Longer foreplay means you spend more time kissing, and making out, the touching expedition can make for better use of time, and it also makes sure she is thoroughly wet before the real penetration begins.
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The disadvantage here is essentially for the guy, because for some men they’re ready for the action and delays can occur in blue balls, for some men, the anticipation might too high which can lead to premature ejaculation, which is what any guy wants to avoid.
This unfortunate event can make the sex even shorter, talk about destroying taking the 44 minutes down to one minute or less, total disaster!
To avoid this disaster, you can use cock ring that can delay orgasm of the man so the woman can climax first then you can cum later after that. Or you can simply bust a nut before the whole sex begins, everyone know the second nut takes longer to cum than the first one, and the third longer than second, that’s nature’s cure for that.
If yours doesn’t happen like that, you may need to see a doctor. Lastly, whatever you do, don’t be the 30 seconds guy!
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