{"id":5266,"date":"2016-08-01T11:13:38","date_gmt":"2016-08-01T10:13:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.deolububble.com\/general\/ndb\/?p=5266"},"modified":"2016-08-01T11:13:38","modified_gmt":"2016-08-01T10:13:38","slug":"how-to-love-a-reluctant-man-by-kae","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.deolububble.com\/general\/ndb\/how-to-love-a-reluctant-man-by-kae\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Love A Reluctant Man by Kae"},"content":{"rendered":"

Written by Kae<\/strong><\/p>\n

Truthfully, I think this should be a blank space. Because there\u2019s no loving someone who doesn\u2019t want your love now, or is there?<\/p>\n

Anyway, the document is not blank solely because I remember that they say where there\u2019s life there\u2019s hope. Since I still live, and I write from my own perspective\/experiences, maybe there is a way to love that man to love me.<\/p>\n

Playing Jennifer Hudson\u2019s \u2018And I\u2019m Telling You\u2019 in the background as I continue. <\/em>Because I need that kind of motivation. We move.<\/p>\n

So maybe previous occurrences have had the males falling at your feet with the bat of one fake (or maybe not fake) mascara-ed eyelash. Not even both. It\u2019s until you stumble upon this Fine-ass, White Agbada-wearing, Mercedes-driving Yoruba (or as in my own case, not-Yoruba) demon.<\/p>\n

Then he has you batting lashes and waving hands and almost riding a damn bicycle backward for you to grab and sustain his attention. And every time you do, it\u2019s like the realization of all dreams. He\u2019s smart and funny and sexy and just the right amount of cocky (I do so like them cocky). It\u2019s like you\u2019ve come home after all the trial and error toasters you have had to go through.<\/p>\n

You are sitting down and getting comfy and ready to move in, then in true demon fashion, Baba tells you that there\u2019s room, but not enough for you, and definitely not long term. You know those Don\u2019t-catch-feelings, I\u2019m- a- friends-with-benefits-situationship-kind-of-guy<\/em> conversations.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re shocked (I was furious too, like, bastard, you hit me with my own freaking line?) But then you put your big girl panties on and say whatevs, because there\u2019s sterling conversation here and chemistry and he kisses oh-so-good. And because, somewhere, somehow, you\u2019re hoping that he will catch feelings. And if he doesn\u2019t, well, you are woman enough to handle your feelings.<\/p>\n

And\u2026.this is where I\u2019m at now.<\/p>\n

I haven\u2019t found a sure fire way to love a man into loving you. I have learnt well enough you can\u2019t force love. The only strategy I have is this- Love YOURSELF enough for the both of you. I know that\u2019s very confusing, I\u2019m still working on it myself, but then it\u2019s only the first step, and I\u2019m certain my readers are smart enough to work it out.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Then my next not-sure-fire way; You know what he wants, use it against him. Be everything he wants, even more. However, as always, there\u2019s a catch to this. Make sure that you in no way bend over backwards to please him. That might be an interestingly freaky position for sex, but I guarantee that outside the bedroom, it\u2019s a major L. Like Loser. There has to be a fine blend with both your wants, so that you are genuinely happy giving him what he wants without depriving yourself.<\/p>\n

Umm, so, yeah. That\u2019s where I\u2019m at with the brilliant scheme. I haven\u2019t had much experience not being wanted back. So, if anyone has had such an experience (and it is good for us females once in a while to keep us humble) please share what you did, or did not do, to win and KEEP your man. I can\u2019t go through all this stress to have him waltz away after a while.<\/p>\n

So, ladies, feel free, comment and share with others. This is starting to feel like those Hollywood movies where the Ladies gang up to seduce a man into a relationship. Hey, what do you know, that\u2019s another idea. But this tea must not get cold. Cheers.<\/p>\n

Kae blogs at\u00a0byzantynechronicles.wordpress.com, you should check out her blog<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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